The Third Year of Marriage

Shawn, when I think about today being the official kick-off to our third year of marriage, I'm kind of shocked. It feels like three days ago we were exchanging vows in our 7 minute ceremony. Two days ago that we were adopting the only acceptable child for us (PONYYY), and one day ago that I posted about our second anniversary. You never believe a person when they say that the time speeds by, but it does. The moments and the years are gone in an instant, which is why I'm glad we spend so much time together. Whether that's discovering new places or just napping on the couch. 

We made promises to each other 1095 days ago to always be there for one another, no matter what. Yeah, of course, we fight just like any couple. But the thing I love about us is that we communicate unlike anyone I've ever known. You're able to understand how I'm feeling based on my look, and allow me time to process, and then share with you my thoughts . You are never condescending, or snarky. Even though I'm sure it would be easy to combat my attitudes with your own, you don't. If I ask for help or just need someone to cry on, without a question, you are there.

The amount of support you put into our family and friendships is unbelievable. When Brad and I came to you talking about audiobook reviews, you didn't stop us and tell us we were crazy. You started planning, researching, and you made this, what a lot of people would say, ridiculous dream a reality. Not to mention all that you do for BCP. The only time I really think you aren't planning or doing work is when you finally pull yourself to bed, or when we watch cartoons together, haha. You're truly a superhero, my love.

Though we are now entering our third year of marriage, I am still impressed by what we learn about one another. Small, or large there seems to be an unending pool of new facts. The understanding that there is always something for the other person to respect and discover is what I believe keeps our marriage thriving. We aren't in this relationship to see how many achievements we can earn. We are together because we believe this life is worth navigating side-by-side.

There's so much to look forward to in every year we have one another, but this year may be the most excellent one yet. Only seven more weeks until we are on our anniversary trip to Ireland! Exploring all the green and expanding our Christmas Ornament collection (and hopefully we actually book some hotels XD). Heading to Salem, finishing the wedding season strong, and maybe going up to New York 1-4 more times :P. I'm giddy just thinking about it!

I wake up every single morning thanking whatever force brought us together. I feel lucky to call you my husband, especially when your hair is particularly unruly, because you are just too friggin' cute. You make me feel like my heart is on fire, in only the best possible way. I love you! Secret bonus: we're one year closer to winning all of the anniversary dances, haha <3.

Dress up photos by Kanayo Adibe

⬇︎And now here we are being basic af ⬇︎

Vape Naysh, y'all!

Idiots without sunglasses.

"I challenge you to a dance off"

Wedding photos by Marlayna Photography